Peggy is a three-year-old who was in intensive care with a life-threatening heart condition. No one knew if she could be saved. A constellation session revealed that her heart felt there was no point in living, no reason to beat. She was bearing burdens from her ancestors’ trauma so severe that life seemed too much to stand. Resolving the underlying causes enabled Peggy (subconsciously) to want to live her own life and to be at peace with her family’s past, to be free to move forward in the present. The doctors’ efforts were successful and little Peggy returned to her natural state of health. (Events in our family systems as far back as ten generations can still have a huge impact on us. We can not and need not know the exact details of the events in order to resolve the issues. We only need to put the past to rest, to restore the flow of love from all the previous generations and to realize that living a fulfilled life is the best way to honor them.)
Mary is a successful businesswoman who still suffered from past childhood pain. Her parents were divorced, she and her siblings split up between them. Two camps developed, each hostile to the other. Mary suffered at this division in her family. Why couldn’t they come together as a family should? The separation continued even when the children had become adult. Mary found it intolerable that her family could not reconcile. After one session, her distress was resolved. She no longer felt upset at the situation which had been going on for so long and showed no signs of ever changing. Yet after the session, Mary was different. She was able to look with love upon all members of her family without expecting them to reconcile or forgive each other. She could now have her own loving relationship with each of them, and accept them as they were. Kinesiology reframes the situation and provides new perspectives so that the pain and stress are resolved.
Peter is an entrepreneur who used to work day and night. He could have hired employees to carry part of his load, but he did not allow himself to. His health and relationships were suffering. He was suffering from a lot of stress. After a session, Peter learned that his grandfather had also run his own company. There had been a fire in which some workers had died. Peter had subconsciously taken on this trauma and subconsciously felt he could not have his own employees, as some catastrophe would befall them. This is an example of how the logical solution – to hire workers – just does not or can not happen. Where there is no understandable reason for the behavior, it is usually that something is going on below the surface of the conscious mind. After Peter’s session, the old inherited trauma could be resolved and Peter could deal with his business on a purely rational basis, free from hidden limitations.